| Rebuilding
Trust..
Trust
is a central point in all relationships. Can we clear up the
past and start anew without the insecurity of preceding experiences
and view TRUST as a life teacher? Trust is a giant commitment
in any relationship.
As 1997
progressed with our President in the toughest situation of
his life I sat back to see what would come forward in the
months ahead.. The word TRUST kept running in and out mind,
in books, on the radio, TV, in conversations.. Trust issues
were appearing in my life with individuals I hired, in my
children's lives with those they were in relationship with,
friends and then, our most visible role model, our President.
Trust
- What does TRUST encompass? How about, faith in, confidence,
partnership, depend upon, count on? Trusting someone who is
a role model for our country, its people, its children, his
child? WOW, what an awesome responsibility!! Did our President
really understand the depth of this virtue?
Observing
Mr. Clinton on television on a few occasions and looking straight
into his eyes I wanted to see more, feel more. I wanted to
view that window to his heart and soul..
How do
we get past the judgment to what is really going on with others?
How do we look beneath all the layers and see more? And do
we truly want to see more?
Or, will
this bring us to an uncomfortable place.. sometimes to our
own life's issues and those who encircle our own world. I
listened to endless comments about our Presidents behavior
as many dissected his life issues. How many of their own personal
issues have been tucked under that old carpet creating a mound
they themselves have ignored ?
What was
Bill Clinton mirroring to us? What is the lesson in this history,
changing experience? Trust.. Is it that I wanted to go beyond
what some were ignoring or not ready to see, feel and get
to the depth of his heart? Rebuilding Trust...Maybe we need
to begin to view the top role models in our land and work
our way down to truly create changes in our own lives, our
families, our communities....The top hasnt always been
the best, personal example. Countless public individuals have
worked so diligently on their professional lives and little
on their personal ..
Was what
happened with our President an opportunity for each of us
to look beyond in a new light within this virtue called TRUST
.
Mr. President,
you were an example for us to learn from and what an awesome
opportunity for you to begin working on your own personal
issues You've been too busy with public duties and ignored
probably the most important aspect of your life. The days
and nights you felt most alone could have created the desire
to move forward to heal your past. It is in our pain that
we normally grow the most. Thank you Mr. President for what
could be the biggest lesson of our lives and I truly hope
this was a pinnacle point in yours.
As I began
writing this a few weeks ago for my .com company I felt a
need for this to be the next mini story. A month ago or more
Bill Clinton was on the front page of our newspaper with an
apology for what occurred many months prior.
We are
now at crossroads with a new President ready to stand before
us. I believe after the next four years our country will make
a giant shift. REBUILDING TRUST will be a big leap in our
new tomorrow's..
The design
of our mini embracing hands was a decision of our graphic
designer, Maryanne. Hands are an intimate symbolism of trust.
When we are in TRUST with another , a coming together in this
personal manner is a instinctive comfort.
Try holding
the hand of those that havent been trustworthy? What
a test for our hearts!!!
Rebuilding
Trust mini folio will begin the healing process in many partnerships.
For some, it will create closure to a relationship thats
meant to end.

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